A HYDE woman is encouraging others to consider becoming Shared Lives Carers after revealing how the role has transformed both her life and the lives of the people she supports.
Cath Tynan has spent around 12 years supporting Linda Shaw through Tameside Council’s Shared Lives scheme, after initially welcoming her into her home for short breaks during a difficult time for Linda’s family.
Linda, who has autism and learning difficulties, was facing uncertainty after her father was diagnosed with cancer and her mother developed dementia.
Before he died, Linda’s father asked Cath if she would take on her care permanently – a decision Cath says she made “in a heartbeat”.
Nearly a decade after the pair shared their story in a Tameside campaign which won Local Government Communications Campaign of the Year at the UK Public Affairs Awards, Cath and Linda continue to enjoy life together. They have also welcomed Rita Walker, who has learning difficulties, into their home over the past four years.
Cath’s approach is focused on independence, with Linda and Rita having their own flat inside the house while sharing everyday life with her – from cooking and cleaning to learning new skills and enjoying activities together.
The trio also enjoy looking after pets, feeding birds in the garden and making the most of new experiences.
Cath, who also provides respite care for other adults, said: “It’s a very rewarding and satisfying job.
“We run as a family home. I don’t really see myself as a carer – they care for me sometimes! Like any family, there are problems and hurdles, but we overcome these together.”
She added: “A highlight is watching somebody grow and allowing them to live a normal life like everybody is entitled to, having new adventures and experiences. It’s an absolute privilege.”
‘I couldn’t ask for a better life’
For Linda, the support has given her the confidence to enjoy life on her own terms, including kayaking, attending community groups and going to gigs.
She said: “I couldn’t ask for a better life, it’s like being on holiday! We all think the world of Cath, she’s the nicest person you could ever meet.
“I didn’t know how my life was going to go, I couldn’t have managed on my own. I lost my mum and dad and never thought I’d find somebody as good as them, but I have done in Cath.
“I love what I do every day. Cath and Rita are like sisters to me; I wouldn’t swap them for the world.”
Rita also values the independence the arrangement gives her, while still being part of a supportive home environment and keeping in touch with Cath.
Cath says the Shared Lives team has supported her throughout the journey, providing training and opportunities to meet other carers.
Shared Lives Week, which runs this week until June 21, aims to highlight the role of Shared Lives Carers and the difference they make by supporting adults who need extra help to live fulfilling lives.
The scheme offers different types of support, including long-term care, respite and day support. Tameside Council says no formal qualifications are required, with carers welcomed from a range of backgrounds.
Councillor Jackie Lane, Executive Member for Adult Social Care and Inclusivity, said: “Shared Lives Carers like Cath make a truly life-changing difference, providing opportunities for people to live more independent and fulfilling lives.
“If you’re patient, kind and have a genuine interest in making a difference to people’s lives, please get in touch with the team to find out more about becoming a Shared Lives Carer.
“Thank you to Cath and all of our other carers across Tameside, as well as our council Shared Lives team, for your meaningful work.”